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Bare Buddies: How to Make Friends Within the Community

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Let’s face it – diving into the world of nudism can feel kind of isolating at first, especially if you are unable to go to a nudist beach or resort. You may find yourself thinking “where are the other nudists around my own age?”.

The good news? You’re not alone. Here is your beginner’s guide to finding bare buddies to share your love of nudism with.

 

1. 👀 Go Where the Nudies Are (Online Edition)

Don’t sleep on online spaces — especially the ones built by and for younger nudists.

Try these:

  • Discord servers: Look for body-positive or queer-aligned naturist communities. Use websites such as Disboard and search by Naturism or Nudism.
  • Specialist apps & sites: Sites like TrueNudists.com and Nonshy.com are great ways to meet nudists — you can filter by age and location if you specifically want to find people around your own age.

Tip: Always check someone is okay with you sending them a message before you do.

 

2. 🏖️ Say Yes to Low-Key Social Nudity

You don’t need to show up to a full-on nudist resort to start connecting.

Start smaller:

  • Visit a clothing-optional beach and strike up convo with other solo beach-goers. Just remember to be respectful and only approach if they are okay with you doing so.
  • Join a naturist yoga class or bathhouse social event.

Pro tip: Bring a friend for support the first time if you’re nervous. (Even if they stay clothed!)

 

3. 📱 Post With Subtlety, Find Your People

You don’t have to go full nude in your feed to connect with naturist mutuals.

Try this:

  • Share a photo of a sunny beach + “Spent today clothes-free — what a reset.”
  • Post a soft, artsy towel pic with #NaturistVibes.
  • Mention body freedom in your stories or bio.

This gives others the green light to say “wait... you too?? 👀” without you broadcasting anything NSFW.

 

4. 💬 Start the Conversation (Without Making It Weird)

If you meet someone who seems open-minded IRL, you can test the waters like:

  • “Have you ever been to a clothing-optional beach?”
  • “Would you ever go skinny dipping at a naturist resort?”
  • “I’ve been trying this body-acceptance thing where I hang around the house naked more. Weird or kind of freeing?”

You’ll be surprised how many people say: “Wait, same??”

 

5. 🤝 Respectful Vibes Only

Making friends as a nudist doesn’t mean sending unsolicited pics or instantly inviting someone to get naked.

Set the tone with:

  • Honest intentions (e.g. "Hey, I'm new to this and looking to connect with others my age.")
  • Respectful chat (No pressure, no expectations.)
  • Shared interests (Start with hobbies, not just nudism.)

Remember: Nudism isn’t a pick-up strategy — it’s a lifestyle. The best connections come from mutual trust, not just mutual nudity.

 

6. 💡 Bonus Idea: Start a Private Group

If there’s nothing around you? Start it.

  • Create a private Telegram, Signal, or Discord group for young, body-positive people in your area.
  • Host a chill, clothing-optional hangout (with clear rules, consent culture, and towel etiquette).
  • Even a book club, art night, or hot tub sesh can become a safe place to connect — with or without clothes.

 

Final Thoughts: You’re Not Weird. You’re Brave.

Exploring social nudity at any age can feel daunting — because it is. Especially if you’re young or are body conscious. You're challenging body shame, reclaiming comfort, and building connection. That’s hot.

The world needs more honest, kind, open-minded naked people. Go find your kind. They’re out there — and they’re probably also wondering how the hell to make friends too.

 

🗣️ Already made a nudist friend? Drop a comment and tell us how it happened, or your favourite things to do together!


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By Josh M.
NUDISH Writer & Editor

 

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